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Social science research has shown that the process of going from an individual human to a mated couple to a family unit may be viewed as a process of "meeting, greeting, dating, and mating." In other words, an individual must approach (or allow oneself to be approached) by another individual in order to determine if there is enough mutual interest to continue the process of growing the relationship (similar to climbing the rungs of a ladder to get to the top). In the past, dating and mating choices of individuals were largely limited to their local communities but, with the increase of individuals living in cities (and with the advent of online dating services and greater physical mobility in America), choices are now much broader.
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In Dr. Garrison's teaching and research of marriage and family courses at universities over the years, a major change (or paradigm shift) has occurred in viewing the similarities and differences between men and women.Formerly, it had been thought the the identity of both men and women was that of "fight or flight" (e.g. conflict within the relationship v. relationship avoidance). More recent research has found that this model applies largely to men (e.g. the "strong, silent type") as opposed to women (who focus to a greater degree upon the "obtaining and maintaining" of relationships). For men, healthy growth and development was seen as separation from others; however, the process of healthy growth and development for women is viewed as having vital connections with others (e.g. intimate relationships with spouse and children). As men and women are both similar and different, it would seem logical to use both points of view in a unified approach to meet the needs of both men and women in the "dating and mating" process.
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Dr. Garrison has researched the effectiveness of this unified approach to both men and women for many years and has presented his research results at professional conferences at the state, regional, and national levels dealing with such issues as domestic violence, alcohol and drug abuse, couples counseling, and child and adolescent counseling. Results have shown that this unified approach is significantly (both clinically and statistically) effective in reducing both individual and couple stress in the relationship, increasing positive feelings about and behaviors in the relationship, and increasing personal growth in both men and women.If you are interested in learning more about how this unified approach will aid you in either obtaining or maintaining your ideal relationship, you are invited to have a no-charge telephone consultation with Dr. Garrison (Atlanta-area residents only, please!)
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